Listen to this articleI Had Sex with a Male Sex Doll for a BBC Three Documentary
I recently participated in the BBC Three documentary ‘Sex Robots and Us’. I was asked to have sex with a male sex doll and give my verdict, as a professional sex toy tester.
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hi my name is Venus O’Hara and I’m a
professional sex toy tester in this
video I’m gonna talk about my experience
having sex with a male sex doll I
recently participated in a BBC 3
documentary called
sex robots and us and I was asked to
have sex with the male sex doll
off-camera
and provide my professional opinion
there first I had my doubts because I
was thinking this is a bit weird
obviously I was really flattered to have
the opportunity to be on the BBC because
my mission in life is to raise orgasmic
awareness and that’s a great platform to
do it but I was thinking this is a bit
weird cuz I’m not desperate to be famous
and it made me think about the programme
the word from the 90s for channel 4
programme in the UK and there was a part
of this program called
I would do anything to be on TV and
people used to do all these freaky
things like I don’t know snorkeling
cow’s urine I don’t know it’s really
really silly or extreme things and I was
thinking they reminded me of that I mean
having sex with a male sex doll it
seemed very freaky and even though I’ve
tried lots and lots of different types
of sex toys I didn’t see it as a sex toy
I I almost considered it more to be a
human replacement and that that’s what
made it really really freaky for me in
the past I have watched documentaries
about sex dolls I find the subject
really really fascinating but when we
think of when I think of sex dolls then
we think of a hyper sexual female sex
doll usually with massive breasts and a
tiny waist
almost like Barbie but a lot bigger of
course it’s not something that I think
women are ever going to consume anytime
soon and that was my role in the
documentary to give her a female
perspective on this in terms of sex toys
I think women’s sex toys and men’s sex
toys are going in very very different
directions well if we look at sex dolls
for example I think people are trying to
go for the more and more
and hyper real or fantasy woman the most
important thing about a sex doll is what
it looks like I think it’s really a
visual thing whereas for women using sex
toys we like sophisticated shapes and
luxurious objects that do not look like
a veiny phallus at all and also when we
use a sex toy and even though we want it
to look nice during the act we’re not
looking at our toys lustfully and
thinking wow it’s a nice memorator
whereas I think people who use a sex
doll they’re they’re looking at it and
treating it as if it’s a replacement for
a human so going back to my experience
when I got over the freakiness of it I
started to think wow this is really cool
because as a professional sex toy tester
there is a lot of talk about dolls and
robots now and I really want to be I
really want to be able to try something
like this given that a sex doll costs
maybe between 2,000 and 5,000 euros
approximately then it’s not that easy to
be able to test one so I started to feel
very fortunate to have this opportunity
I saw pictures of the doll online before
I unboxed it well it it had a name
actually it was called Steven which was
very weird because some of my sex toys
have human names but not not really they
usually have I don’t know maybe
different names but this seemed like it
was it seemed like it was giving it a
personality right from the beginning and
as soon as I saw it I thought this is
this is definitely not for a woman and
this definitely has a male customer in
mind because you could penetrate the
mouth the anus and I was very curious
about the fellas because I couldn’t
actually see that online so I saved it
until the unboxing the doll arrived in a
big cardboard box and it looked like a
coffin really it was very very very
freaky how to screw the head on and put
a wig on
and put the phallus in because I had a
big hole where you can put
interchangeable penises which I was very
I wasn’t surprised about I was I last
what I was expecting because you’re
gonna spend 2,000 euros or pounds
whatever on a sex doll and he definitely
wants to be able to choose different
types of penises for different moods you
could have one that vibrates one it’s
got a bit of curve the phallus that came
with was far too big for me it was it
was very veiny and realistic and just
massive and there was just no way I was
gonna be able to to use that one so I
was actually able to use my own dildo
with the doll so that was a relief and
also for hygienic reasons as well I was
glad to use my own toy even though I
always use a condom with them
phallic objects anyway once I got the
doll assembled with its head and what
else we get cetera I carried out of the
box with great difficulty because it’s
really really really heavy and that’s
something I thought would be quite
attractive about it because I thought
maybe it would feel you know like having
the weight of someone on top of you in
missionary position that might be a
quite nice sensation if you’re missing
real sex but in fact it was just so so
difficult to move that it was impossible
it was impossible to even think about
that so there’s actually a lot of work
for me to be able to do anything with
this doll whereas with a sex toy it’s
just literally switch it on and then
close your eyes and then a few minutes
later you’re having an orgasm whereas
with this doll I had to go on top there
was no other way to to use it I had to
do all the work imagine spending all
that money on a doll and having to do
all the work and there was not even
clitoral stimulation so I couldn’t even
have an orgasm and that the head just
didn’t screw on properly was looking off
to the side looking out the window
and it was like having sex and someone
who’s just not that into you or not into
you at all the real freaky stuff
happened the day after filming actually
because as soon as we stopped filming
and we put Steven back in the box and I
kept my dildo of course I had to find a
shipping company that would collect a
Steven from my penthouse apartment that
has no lift and I tried to request two
people to come and collect it that just
just seemed to be impossible and then
whenever someone did come and this poor
guy came up all these dares and tried to
take it down on his own with great
difficulty and he was like that what’s
in this box what is in this box and I
said sports equipment I was just
thinking please take it please take it
because he was in the middle of my
lounge for a couple of days and I was
starting to worry a bit I thought if
something happens to me how am I going
to explain this and that’s something you
have to take into consideration and if
you want a sex talk they’re definitely
not easy to store and not easy to move
around either so discretion is it’s
definitely an issue anyway I hope you’ve
enjoyed this video and if you want to
watch the documentary sex robots and us
check out the link below
I haven’t actually watched it myself
thanks for watching
