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In our increasingly modern society, everything is for sale, and whatever it is, it can fall victim to commercialization. Even our love is beginning to be quantified and instrumentalized. Perhaps we don’t realize it, but observe our lives. We have replaced real-life friends with Facebook and Instagram netizens, family cooking with takeout and garbage, Korean dramas to fulfill our fantasies of love, hero movies to satisfy our need for self-actualization…and various The richly curvaceous love doll is gradually replacing all living humans. Many people’s perception of love has also been reduced to sex and lust. Fewer and fewer people talk about love, and the subtle and rich emotions about love seem to have become unnecessary.
The harsh reality of love and marriage
A few days ago, the “New York Times” published a report on the state of Chinese marriages. According to the report, the number of Chinese who choose to marry is declining. Last year, 12 million Chinese couples registered their marriages, a number that has declined for two consecutive years. Consistent with this trend, the number of divorced couples reached 3.8 million last year, more than double the number a decade ago.
Not long ago, a website conducted an extensive social survey on the current state of Chinese marriages and relationships. The survey found that of the approximately 50,000 respondents, nearly 70% of married couples regretted their marriages, with more women than men regretting their marriages. In a separate survey conducted by the China Youth Daily Social Research Center and Survey Network, 61.2% of respondents said they tend to “fear marriage.”
Let’s take a look at new data released by our neighbor Japan. According to a survey by the National Institute of Population and Social Security Research, about 69.8% of never-married men and 59.1% of never-married women aged 18-34 in Japan have no dating partner, an increase of about 10% from five years ago. The proportion of men and women who have never had sexual experience has also increased, with 42% of men and 44.2% of women saying they have never had sexual experience.
Overall, more and more young people are unwilling to marry, have no partner, and have no sexual experience. Many analyze this problem in terms of sociology, such as the aging of the population and the increasing pressure to marry. Women are highly educated and no longer see marriage as the only way to feel secure. Increased personal independence is unwillingly constrained. Yet few pay attention to literary perspectives. Is it possible, for example, that young people do not need that much love and marriage?
Young people can live a secure life without getting married. They can achieve happiness without feeling lonely through various virtual networks. Some young people may work at the office, others at home. Daily busy work consumes a lot of time and energy, not to mention other things. Once the work day is over, there are only about five hours left if you add sleep for the day. During this time, young people can find their own fun. For example, they may play online games, read novels, or watch movies. Even if you need to be loved, there is no loneliness, you can play with our Sex Doll. There are still some limitations in the current functionality of the Sex Doll, but in the near future the Sex Doll will be able to communicate with you, make sounds, and perceive your emotions. You can find spiritual comfort with a Sex Doll.
Troubles Caused by Marriage
More and more young people are reluctant to get married, and some married young people are quick to theorize. What is the motivation for this? This is worth considering. The crisis facing people today is so serious that we no longer seem to be forcing ourselves to stay married. In the past, family relationships were very important. Many families must live with a husband or wife for the sake of their children or to maintain family stability. Maintain this apparent marriage relationship. In fact, we see many couples in today’s society. The only proof that they are a married couple is their marriage certificate, and the only thing they retain is this simple marriage certificate. Except for this, they do not communicate in their lives. They have no children. They go to different rooms as soon as they get home, or even families where the couple does not live together. Emotions among people have grown cold, as if spiritual support and a sense of belonging have disappeared.
Marriage means compromise. When you love someone, you will force yourself to do things you don’t want to do just to please them. So when you see the other person smile, it makes you happy. However, this kind of tolerance is temporary and with the passage of time the love between two people may fade. At a later stage, you may not have to force yourself to do what you want to do. For example, in a family marriage relationship, if you have to put up with your partner’s temper, he or she may unjustifiably cause problems. And there are many trivial events in a family. For example, there is the issue of who cleans the house and who sweeps the floors. You may have another child with you. Child support can be expensive and may make a difference in your child’s education. I face different problems almost every day. But a MILF silicone sex doll will not make you face so much pain, she will share your burden and always face you with a smile. She will not scream or cry hysterically, she will relax your nerves.
Love Dolls Turn Love into a Tool
In Hirokazu Fumie’s “Air Doll,” the inflatable doll Xiao Wan truly has a soul. Xiao Wan was originally just silica gel, a tool for a middle-aged uncle’s vent, but one day she suddenly had a heart, thoughts, consciousness, and someone to love Xiaowan expects herself to no longer be replaceable silicone, but unique silicone. But when she had those expectations, she realized she had become “different. Because the people around her don’t need her with a soul, they only need a pure alternative that doesn’t require them to expend energy to speak their emotions. Tool vents. In fact, it is not just her. People with souls are also alternatives to modern society. They are as mundane as the dead for fear that their jobs will be replaced.
They are simply inflatable dolls on another level. What Jiang Honghe wants to express is that what we need is not substitutes, but human interaction, mutual help, mutual understanding, and warmth. In the film, he asked Xiao Wang to express the imperfections of life and the mutual needs of people through Hiroshi Yoshino’s poem “Life. Life is a perfection that cannot succeed on its own, and that life is intrinsically important. The lack of importance is filled by the presence of others. It is like a flower. It is not enough for the stamens and pistils to come together. We still need the visit of insects and the wind. We are both the lack itself and the seed that is sown. We may be the flies slowly approaching the blooming flower, or we may be the wind that blows the flies.
We must acknowledge that Dutchwives bring a lot of happiness into our lives. We no longer have to face too many practical problems. We can place ourselves in the Sex Doll with peace of mind. Dutchwives can be our spiritual nourishment. Future developments will certainly be increasingly beneficial and even we humans will become tools. We cannot change this reality and the future. We do not know what the future holds, but we must pay attention to our inner needs.
If necessary, a Sex Doll is reasonable. We do not have to put up with ourselves to carry our burdens. It is better to unburden ourselves now. Bravely face your true self. Only when you try the Sex Doll will you realize how good she is at relieving our spiritual crises and physical needs. If you too have these problems, why not start by buying an inexpensive love doll to try and relax your mind?
