How to seek Approval If Parents Catch You Unexpectedly

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Here’s what you need to do in case your mum has suddenly found out about your sex doll.

A) STAY CALM

Never try to be in a rush to tell your parents about your sexual desires or your new partner. Often panic overwhelms the first-time sex doll owners the day after they bring the new member to the house. Remember, she isn’t horrified or a monster that you should feel awkward about. She is bound to captivate your parents – should you stay calm and wait for the right moment.

Take a deep breath and remember, you’re a grown-up. Grownups do have sex. There’s nothing to be ashamed of. You get to live your life once and you’ve every right to enjoy your romantic life to the fullest – and do whatever you like.

So, chill out and enjoy your life with a cute, little partner. I promise your parents would understand and respect your feelings – if you don’t go rogue and let them know when you feel comfortable.

B) DON’T YELL OR BE DISRESPECTFUL

Most people tend to lose their cool if their parents find out about their silicone or TPE sexual partners by chance. Your first instinct could be to yell at your parents or get annoyed. Getting angry and yelling phrases like, “Mind your own business”, “It’s my life”, or at worst, “Get out” should be avoided at all cost.

Your response should be subtle and polite. Accidents happen and you can’t always predict them. Don’t give a reaction right away and instead, wait for a few minutes to gather yourself and quell any temptation of raising your voice and storming off; that often backfires. Your Mum wouldn’t want to hurt your feelings if you tackle the situation judiciously.

C) BE COMPLETELY HONEST

Don’t try to play any games or be vague in telling them about your sex life. that may raise unnecessary speculations or concerns in their minds. You’re a grownup and parents expect unabashed honesty of you. The world has evolved a lot in the last couple of decades pertaining to sex toy use.

So, put on a brave face and speak up for your romantic partner. Being 100% honest with your parents is the best route for you to win their approval.

It is up to you how much detail you want to go into about your sex life or why you want a sex doll, but you should at least tell them a few things about your sex doll and how she is better than real women – especially for the time being.

Knowing that your partner is not much different from real women out there and what’s more, she makes you happy, your mother will be relieved and at peace with your decision. Gauging by how comfortable she is when you tell her about your sex doll, you can decide whether or not you should delve into further details.

D) EXPECT THE UNEXPECTED

That’s the reality you need to be prepared for beforehand. A life-sized sex doll isn’t a tiny toy that you can just hide or palm off forever. Sooner or later, you need to tell your parents or they may find it out themselves.

You need to acknowledge the awkwardness of the situation in advance and all you need to do is, as explained earlier, be honest and don’t lose your cool.

Regardless of how your parents give the initial reaction, you need to stay calm as a cucumber and try to be straightforward in the politest words. You may say: “Hey Mom or dad, I was about to come to you and explain this myself. Let me tell you the qualities of my new life partner … or I can talk with you-er … whenever you feel comfortable.”

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